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Last weekend I got the honor of being a dorm mom/small group leader for the First EVER Princess retreat at Round Lake Christian Camp. It was incredible, our guest speaker, Wendy from New York City, was incredible. Lisa and Becky from WCC did an IMPECABLE job planning a Godly, Girly and Great weekend! Here are some of my highlights.
The first night Wendy proved to the girls that they are princesses! She showed us Bible verses that said that we are daughters of God and they he is the King, so that makes us all princesses!
The next session Wendy discussed how all the Disney princesses had villains who were jealous of the princess and who wished harm upon the princess. We too have a villain (Satan) who is jealous of us and who will trick us and harm us by any means possible.
My all time favorite discussion was on beauty. Before the beauty session we took our group (the Emeralds… AMAZING girls J) outside in the blizzard (it wasn’t really a blizzard but we did get quite a lot of snow). We then gave each girl a geode. For any of you non-science geeks out there, a geode is a spherical rock mass containing a cavity lined or filled with crystals that have grown unimpeded and so are frequently perfectly formed. In order to open it, you have to hammer the ugly outside of the geode in order to crack it open to reveal the breathtakingly beautiful crystals on the inside. You probably know where this analogy to beauty is going….
It is so difficult living in a society that puts so much emphasis on outer beauty. From fashion magazines, to runway models, to TV shows girls are told they need to be tall, skinny and perfect in order to have true beauty. In our small group discussion the girls told us that they felt everything is telling them they have to be fake, someone that they are not in order to feel accepted and beautiful and they can never measure up to the magazines (pretty heartbreaking to hear from a 4th graders mouth).
The geode represented the importance of inner beauty. Geodes are dull, bumpy and ugly on the outside. They are nothing special. But when you hammer away at them and crack them open, you reveal beautiful crystals. They are all so unique and special, just like each of the little princesses. The inner beauty is what makes the geode beautiful, and their inner beauty is what makes them beautiful.
I was also thinking about how hard it was to open the geodes. We were hammering for over 20 min. in order to get all ours open. This reminded me of how difficult it is to stop focusing on outer beauty and to crack through the lies that our outer beauty defines us as either beautiful or not. It is SO easy to get caught up in our outer beauty. It can engulf us and over take us. But when we let God crack us open, and show us how he defines beauty, we will see a much more realistic picture of beauty.
I loved princess camp and can’t wait for the next one.
1 Peter 3:3-4 Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.
Proverbs 31:30 Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
Psalm 139:14 I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.
1 Samuel 16:7
But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”
1 Peter 3:4
But let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.